Bitch is BACK - Femme Luxe Try On Clothing Haul.

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ohhhhhh hi there guyssss!!! 

How has it actually been so long man?!! Bish took some time out!! It's been cray, fo'sure but I will leave that for another post. 

Today, I am back atcha with a super exciting post!!! It's a freaking clothing try on and review. 

Looking back, I don't think I have ever done a post like this... But in 2020 Imma switching it up. I am back with all the fun stuff. I have missed being Little Miss Creative and doin' ma thang!! 

So let's get to it!!

I am hitting you up with the clothing/fashion brand Femme Luxe. 

Now I don't need to tell you who they are because most of you gals and boiz out there would of most likely heard of them or shopped with them, they are pretty big, especially on social media!! 

I have ordered from Femme Luxe before off my own back but that was only once and I didn't keep most of it that I wanted because lets face it I am not K.West, I don't have bare P!! 

I didn't realise that quite a few times Femme Luxe had contacted me about collaborating with them, it was by chance that I checked my junk box over the Christmas period that I saw the emails. I did think it was spam but BOOM it was legit and here I am collaborating with them and I am super excited about it because I LOVE their clothing. 

Please note... I have been gifted these items in return for this review BUT that doesn't mean that I would sugar coat the truth. If you have followed me for a long ass while, you KNOW I will never feature products that I don't genuinely love, I don't tell a big fat massive lie when reviewing... If I don't like something, I don't like something and I wouldn't feature it. 

On a side note however, just because something isn't right for me, it doesn't mean that it wouldn't be right for someone else, so I would never be a mean ass bish about it. 

Now we have got that boring shiz out of they way, I am going to show you what I picked and how I feel about them. Trust me ladies, it's some dope shiz. 

Femme Luxe have soooo many super glam dresses on their site, it's really hard to just choose one ya know! I chose two. 

First off is the  Black PU Ruched Bardot Bodycon Mini Dress in the style Alex.  

I am abso-freakin-lutely in love with this dress guys!!! I am always a little dubious when I order clothes online because you never know if they are going to be true to size, if they look like the picture, if they are going to 'hang' on you properly or if you're going to look like a jacket potato with melted cheese... Tastes good, looks messy. 

Now, I am part of the Itty Bitty Titty Committee - I used to have boobies, now I don't. F you endo!!!

 Now I find certain dresses don't fit on my chest and even wearing a strapless bra doesn't always help. I am wearing a strapless with this black PU ruched bardot dress because it just wouldn't hold up on my non-existent boobs. Ha. The dress does however have this little silicone looking strips on the rim of the neckline to help hold up the top half, which helps a lot. 

This black PU ruched bardot dress is so flattering, it's ruched all in the right places, just where a lady likes them. On the butt and on the stomach. If you're eating whilst wearing this badboy, NOBODY and I mean NOBODY is going to see your food baby because the fabric is gathered and hides it. Score! 

The black PU ruched bardot dress is also ruched on your behind which lifts your bum and makes it look so flattering. There's nothing worse than wearing a really nice dress and it flattens dat ass! Nope, nobody got time for that man!! 

Look at it!!! This dress is goals AND it's in this PU fabric too!!!! Anybody that knows me knows that I am alt and I love PU and Vinyl clothing, I love to push boundaries with my style, whether that's with fashion or makeup. This is me, I cannot wait to wear it out. 

You can also see for yourself that this dress fits like a glove. It's not too tight either, it just sits nicely. It's edgy looking yet super comfy. We all about the comfort girls, right?! 

The little puffy sleeves on this dress are super cute too. At first when I looked at this black PU ruched bardot dress I thought 'hmmm, I don't know how I feel about them' BUT never judge because I actually think it makes the dress what it is. 

Looking at these pictures makes me want to go out now, any takers?! Ha. 

This dress is a keeper guys!! If you would like to snap yourself a killer dress then click here. 

I will also link the items throughout the blog, just look for the linked words!! See, I am here to make it all easier for you. You can thank me later. :) 

Next up are the Black PU Vinyl Cycling Shorts in the style Irene

I freakin love these too. I mean come on, how dope do these look!!! They are so out there but at the same time they aren't. I think these black PU vinyl cycling shorts should be a staple piece in EVERY girls wardrobe!! They can really sass up any outfit that would appear otherwise boring. I mean if you're a confident gal, which I am sure you are, then head out in these shorts and be a damn right badass!!! 

I have tried on black PU vinyl cycling shorts before and I have always returned them because and I will be honest, the just looked shit. These though... They fit awesome. I honestly didn't think they would, I thought they would be hella tight on the legs and give me three thighs and it would be too big on the waist. NOPE. They are perfect. 

I tend to wear vinyl clothes in the summer too... I know what y'all are thinking, so stop!! Ha. Yes I have had Ross moments in the leather pants (Friends reference) and it's not cool, 

I will be wearing these black PU vinyl cycling shorts in the summer paired with a longline tee and boots. Yes I am THAT girl. 

The fabric is super stretchy but it's not thin and flimsy. It's a good sturdy fabric. Oh and as you can see they are high waisted and they aren't all baggy in the foof area!! I absolutely despise that, don't you?! When you're walking around and it looks like your vagina is 6ft long. 

Not today Satan. Nope. 

Next we have this little beauty. The Black PU Corset Top in the style Amy

I have featured this PU corset top in the above pictures teamed with the vinyl shorts because I want to wear this with EVERYTHING!!! I even tried to wear it to work the other day but even for me I think that was borderline mad. Ha. 

This PU corset top was actually one of the items that I really wanted to keep when I ordered before and now she is mine. This little savage goes with EVERYTHING. You can team this PU corset top with leathers (faux leather of course), ripped mom jeans, with those vinyl shorts, with leather combats like above. Night out or day time appropriate I feel. 

This PU corset top is great because it makes me look like I have boobs. ALL HAIL THIS TOP!!! It's a hook and eye fastening on the back which gives it an authentic feel and it's not mega short in length which means your high waisters' fit just under it. 

The fabric is thick and sturdy and it stays up, pet peeve is when things fall down and on me it happens a lot with sweetheart necklines or just strapless in gen!!! 

This PU corset top is another staple, I wore it the other day and people are already asking me where it's from and it's from Femme Luxe hunny!! I have a feeling this will go out of stock pretty quickly. 

It's nearing the end now guys, lets not all cry at once. :D 

So, last but not least is this glitzy baby the Gold and Black Ombre Sequin Cowl Neck Open Back Mini Dress in the style Blossom 

Now. I loved this black and gold ombre dress, it fit really lovely on the bottom half, it is all sparkly and I love EVERYTHING SHINY and it just felt really glam. 

Unfortunately for me I didn't pick wisely and got distracted by the sequins because I chose a freakin halter neck dress... That is a big no no for my top half because there is nothing for the dress to cling to. 

I put this on and I was like 'wow' and then when I tied the fabric together at the neck I soon realised it wasn't the dress for me, it was too big on top, it's not made for the Itty Bitty Tittie Committee guys, which is a shame because I loved it. 

That being said if you are on the bigger 'B cup' side and beyond then you will love this black and gold ombre sequin dress. It's super flattering on. I didn't post a picture with me wearing it because it's just not going to do this dress any justice. There was excess fabric where my boobies should be. 

I did notice that the neckline and fastening is slightly different to what's pictured on the website but again that said I do think the actual fastening is better than what's shown because if you have bigger boobs you don't want anything to break and they fall out of the dress because that is just traumatising... Unless you don't mind flashing your boobs, then that's absolutely fine, you do you boo!!! 

There is a second layer underneath the black and gold ombre sequin dress so it's opaque and not sheer in any way. The sequins are also bunched together nicely, there are no sparse areas, I think I've had one sequin found on my floor whilst prancing around in this and that's pretty good going as we all know these little idiots like to shed on anything you buy. 

There we have it guys, my first blog post back after a long ass while out. I think this is a brill way to kick off the return of my blog, to 2020 - the year of getting shit done and to all the positivity I will be inhaling. 

I would like to thank Femme Luxe for working with me and I hope to work with them more in the future. Thank you to you guys for following me, reading my crap and for trusting my judgement... I just wouldn't trust it where men are concerned. Ha. 

You can find me on all social media under LONEWOLFLEYA - yes it's different to my blog name because I am going to rebrand soonish. So give me a follow. :) 

You can also find the babes of Femme Luxe here - Get shopping ladies. 

You can find them on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook. Click the words to hook up. 

All the clothes I have featured are a size 6-8 and I would say they are pretty true to size, so you will have no surprises when you receive your little gems!!! 

I am off now to eat and watch netflix... And probs order more crap online. 

Ciao for now. 

L x

Damn Girl - 7 Signs That You Need To Get Out Of That Relationship

You meet a guy, you’re wary. He effortlessly tells you what you want to hear, you know, that he’s, “Never met anyone like you before”, “You’re amazing”, “You’re beautiful,”… Blah, blah, blah.

It just rolls off his tongue like it’s been rehearsed… You can bet your ass baby girl, that that shit has been replayed over and over again to each and every girl who sets her sights on him. Now you see it, just in time.

You start to let your guard down, you start to let him in and feel real emotions, emotions you haven’t felt for a long while—because you believe this man is perfect for you. You think, ‘Wow, he’s too good to be true.’ Yep, you guessed what I am going to say next—that’s because they usually are. They are all very well-behaved in the beginning, they are trying to impress you, reel you in. Then BOOM… WTAF?!

Not all relationships start off like this and end in disaster but the ones not worth staying for are the ones that start off oh so magical but then turn out like a scene from Titanic… Tragic.

Run while you still can.

need to know when you are just ‘too good’ for that good for nothing guy.

You are an energetic, full of life, bubbly girl.

You light up the room when you’re in it, people flock to you, you are positive and give off good energies. You live life to the full and have a wicked sense of humor. He is the complete opposite of you—he’s quiet, never interested in anything other than himself, and overthinks to the point of creating an uneasy atmosphere. He makes you feel like you are attention-seeking, so you pull back to become the person you are not. NEVER change yourself to be with someone else. They don’t like who you are? They can take a hike. Adios.

You are thoughtful.

You are a thoughtful person, so you are going about your normal day but you constantly spot things that he may like, so you get them him because you want to make him happy. When the tables are turned—you receive nothing but empty promises. You leave cute little notes for him to find when you’re not with him. He can barely text you back, let alone make such an effort to lift a pen. Are you mad?! Ha. It’s the little things in life that count, so if he isn’t thoughtful with doing the little things, imagine your wedding day…“Do you take…”, “Wait, where is he?!”—need I say more.

You are the only one showing emotions of any kind.

So you’re missing your guy, you freaking love the man in your life, you tell him so but wait… What is this I hear? I thought so, the sound of tumbleweed drifting past. Is it even reciprocated? How would you know, he barely tells you unless you badger the heck out of him and even then do you believe him? You end up with so many unanswered questions in your head it will drive you crazy. If your guy won’t open up to you or won’t tell you how he really feels about you, do you really want to waste your time on a guy who may or may not like you as much as you like him? There are plenty of awesome guys out there who won’t leave you guessing’ HE WILL MAKE IT KNOWN!!

You are the one pulling the relationship through.

Every day seems to be a struggle, too much like freakin hard work. You are having to repeat to him how to not treat you, how to treat you, remind him that you are his girlfriend and not one of his guy mates. There is NO EFFORTwhatsoever from the guy who’s supposed to love you. You’re tired but will keep fighting for the both of you. He thinks everything is fine, you know it’s not. You talk to him about it, he tells you he’s listening but his actions prove otherwise.

When you are the one with the 80/20 ratio in the relationship, you know his days are numbered but how much longer can you actually do this for before you finally break? Before he breaks you, he needs to either suit up or ship out. Boy bye!!

Everyone sees what he has apart from him.

He’s taking you for granted, he knows everyone thinks you’re beautiful, that you’re a catch, that you have this freakin awesome personality and you are with him. He thinks now that he has you, he doesn’t have to do anything to keep you. WRONG. That dude couldn’t be further from the truth. He barely compliments you anymore, you try to get his attention and short of flashing him your boobs, you’re fighting a losing battle. Girl, if he cannot see what he has and let’s face it, most guys are batting above their average, then his unnoticed becomes another man’s noticed and we all know who the real winner is here. YOU. Leave his ass if he doesn’t love and respect or even NOTICE what he has. Someone else will.

Communication is the key.

If he struggles to even text you once throughout the day now, when before he would hit you with those bad boys 24/7, there’s something wrong… Not with you. No, my love, there’s something wrong with him. Never let a guy make you feel like you don’t deserve his time. You do deserve it, he’s just making excuses— “I am really busy”, “I forgot to reply.” Bullcrap. He goes to take a leak right, a cigarette break maybe? He has time, he has just become lazy in the way he is treating you. If his communication starts seriously slacking, more so than his attempts to woo you, then I would drop him like a sack of shit because nobody got time for chasing. Let him do the chasing. If he doesn’t chase, you have your answer. You did the right thing.

Always trust your gut.

Your gut is a lifesaver—if something isn’t feeling right, you start to feel overly anxious about the relationship and if he’s the right guy for you. Your gut is telling you something. When something is right it should be easy, you should love freely, it should just feel right. If your gut is telling you to get out then you need to listen to that bitch because that could stop you from being in a world of pain in the future, more so than what you’re feeling now.

Some guys can and will change if they genuinely want to but if he continues to ignore it after you have told him once about how you’re feeling then he isn’t good for you. You never know, he may just pull the rabbit out of the hat and surprise you but if the above keeps happening, then you need to get out of that relationship— the one-sided relationship that’s only working for him.

You can find this piece and two of my others over on Her Way 's official website or on their Facebook page. You can read my other two articles here and here

Until next time...

L

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You Broke Me So I Walked Away - I AM GOOD ENOUGH - AS SEEN ON 'HER WAY'

To the man who broke my heart.

I don’t think you realise what you have done. I don’t think you understand how you have broken me. I don’t think you ever understood me at all and that’s a shame because now you’re going to hear it.

How could you do that to me? How could you let me cry myself to sleep? I never did sleep did I and you knew that. You knew when you finally read the messages I sent you, days later you read them, and you left me there alone, you never once responded. I was dead to you… I am dead to you.

You knew everything I had been through before I met you, you knew I didn’t want to let anyone in. You found me, you pursued me, you hooked me in. And for what? For fucking what?! Was it all just a game to you? “Treat them mean to keep them keen” you said. Good job dude because you didn’t keep me keen, you pushed me away that much, you lost me.

I had my guard firmly up to protect myself and protect my heart. I didn’t want to feel the pain of losing someone. I didn’t want the agonising feeling of being let down time and time again, to be used, to feel unloveable, unwanted and ‘not good enough’.

The truth is I AM GOOD ENOUGH!!

You were just too selfish to see it. I told you I was scared of getting hurt again. I tried to push you away in fear that this person I am letting into my life is going to break me when I have just pieced myself back together. You told me to trust you, you told me to let you in, not to run away. You promised that you would treat me like a princess, that I deserved so much more than I had ever received. You told me that you loved me. Completely and utterly. You lied… You broke your promises.

So what if you have been hurt in the past—haven’t we fucking all?! You are not something special, we have all been through shit that almost killed us. The difference is you used your insecurities and issues against the one person who was there for you and would of been there for you through everything. The one person who loved you properly. You wouldn’t allow me in, you did what you begged me not to do. You left me outside in the cold. How could you be so heartless?!

I am never going to apologise for loving you—the love and attention I gave you was more than you deserved.

It was love which I deserved. You never loved me; you told me what you thought I wanted to hear. If you loved someone like you claimed, you would NEVER want to hurt them, make them cry or make them feel used. Did you care though? I don’t think you did and you still don’t now. If you cared, if you loved me, if you wanted me in your life you would have fought for me, for us.

I did the fighting for the both of us and now I am exhausted.

How could you change from the guy that you made me fall in love with to the man you are now? I say ‘man’ but I use that term very loosely because to be a man, you would not be a coward, a liar and so utterly cruel. You were so intense in the beginning, showering me with compliments. We would talk every day until the early hours. You were the male version of me.

We had an instant connection. YOU ARE NOTHING YOU MADE YOURSELF OUT TO BE! You have two personalities: the affectionate, warm, loving and attentive side and then the cold, emotionless, hard hearted and thoughtless side. A side I never knew about until it was too late. Until I had fallen for you. That side I didn’t like. You made me nervous to be around you. It made me so anxious that I felt sick. I couldn’t open up to you fully. I was scared you were going to run away. I was scared I was going to say the wrong thing. I was scared of the whole thing.

Why did you suddenly turn so cold and unapproachable? The only time I felt close to you was when we were intimate and even then it wasn’t like it used to be. I felt like crying afterwards. I did cry afterwards but you wouldn’t have known because I hid those tears from you whilst you fell asleep after getting what you wanted.

It became all about you, what you wanted, what you needed. Not once did you think about me and how I was feeling, if I was okay. You turned into a person I no longer knew. I lost the connection with you. To be with someone and feel so alone is crippling. Being with the person you learned to love because you thought you could and to be rejected by you time and time again killed me inside.

I noticed you changing towards me, hardly seeing me, cancelling plans, leaving me on my own at your place for hours and only wanting to know me when you wanted something. You barely spoke to me at all, the texts got fewer, and you went silent on the phone when I was trying to have a conversation with you after not speaking to you all day.

Do you know what it feels like to be treated like an option, to be treated like you are not a priority… To be treated like shit? Oh yeah, of course you do… It happened to you didn’t it. You know that pain. You know that hurt. You know it all yet you thought it would be okay to do that to an innocent person who only wanted the best for you. How could you?!

You mistook my love and affection for being needy or codependent. You were mistaken. You couldn’t look further than yourself to see that what I was giving you was something that you were needing. Something that I was needing. Something I never got in return.

I wanted to be around you. I wanted you in my life even though you were making it so hard for me. That was love babe, why did you turn it into something that felt so wrong, something unnatural? I was always fine on my own. I was fine living my life and being me. You stole that from me and I wanted you to do that in a way that would make me love you more.

Instead it’s made me hate you for what you’ve put me through.

You have taken me for granted. You think by treating me mean it would keep me interested. You thought by having control you have the power.

I took back the power that day and left your ass. I walked away… In fact you made me run.

You made me do what I kept trying to do but you sweet-talked me round with your fake promises and lies. You thought I would stay,. You thought I would keep putting up with you and your two personalities. You were not worthy of my love. You are not worthy of my tears or headspace.

You left me bleeding my heart out to you and you ignored me. You still ignore me, why?! You shut out your girlfriend in her time of need. I needed you to be there for me just like I was there for you but you never came. I messaged you when things got tough. They got tough all because of you. You never once replied. You left me with no choice but to end it. I didn’t want to as stupid as that sounds. I wanted to make it work. I knew if you opened up to me, let me in and stopped being so insecure and cold, we could have been amazing. You never gave me or us a chance. Instead you took the easy way out and avoided me at all costs.

That cuts deep, that right there is the REAL YOU.

I bent over backwards to accommodate you and your needs, I did everything you wanted. I understood you were busy, I understood you had a life that didn’t always include me. The thing is, it never really did include me. I was there for convenience, your toy, your boredom breaker. There was no effort, no romance, nothing to keep me. You didn’t make me feel special. You gave me whiplash. You gave me nothing but fear and pain.

I’d like to think you didn’t do any of this intentionally, but maybe you did—who knows because in reality, I don’t know you at all. How could you be so cold and cruel to someone when they didn’t do anything wrong? They never hurt you. I would never have hurt you. Why cut off all contact before I walked away—was that your way to ensure I would end it so you could play the victim and get what you wanted?
Did you not have the balls to tell me you didn’t want a relationship, that you’re a commitment phobe?

Why did you ask me to be your girlfriend if you didn’t want it, why tell me you love me if you never really meant it? To get into my pants?! I have so many questions that I will never get answers to because you’re an asshole. This I suppose is my closure.

I will say this though—you may not think it now or even see it like this right now. But in a week, a month or in a year’s time, you WILL regret treating me like this. You will regret letting me walk away. You will soon see what you had in me. You will realise that you didn’t lose me. Nope, you couldn’t keep me.So right now whilst you’re busy doing the things that made you have “no time for me”, busy getting into other relationships that you don’t want, you will be fine. It’s when you finally wake up alone, wishing it was me you were waking up to. It’s then when it will really hit you. It’s then when you will experience the pain I went through. It’s then you will WISH you could turn back time and treat me properly.

It is then that I will be able to look you in the eye again and say, “Now you know how it feels.” Now you can suffer like you made me suffer. Except, I never made you feel any pain, you did it yourself and you will only have yourself to blame.

From me to you, the best thing I did was walk away from you.

I will always love you, but right now I am in the healing process, I still miss you and I still feel sad. That sadness is for the life I know we could have had, for the man I fell in love with but who now can fall in love with me all over again.

I am free to find someone who really wants me around, who would do anything for me, who will make me their priority, who will give me the world. I gave you so many chances and you never took them. I am not sorry for leaving you. I am sorry I didn’t do it sooner when I saw the signs but chose to ignore. I love you but I love me more.

I am the one that got away.

You can find my other two published pieces over on Her Way's official website or on their Facebook Page.

You can find my other articles here and here.

Until next time... 

L

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